We’ve all been at networking events or dinner parties where someone just keeps going on and on with their stories. Here are seven tips to help you interrupt a rambler gracefully.
Seven Tips to Gracefully Interrupt Ramblers
- Insert Your Own Story
If they keep talking about their recent travels, you can say, “Oh, that reminds me of a trip I just made,” and see if they pause and let you speak. - Avoid Affirming Body Language
Stop nodding unconsciously, as it signals interest. When you stop, they may notice and pause to check in with you. - Raise Your Hand
If stopping the nodding doesn’t work, physically raise your hand to indicate you want to say something. - Announce Your Intent to Comment
Say, “I’d like to comment on that. Before I do, I want to check my understanding,” and refer to some of their points before making your comment. - Invite Others to Join the Conversation
In a group setting, invite someone else to share their experience. For example, “I’d love to hear what you have to say, [Name].” - Change the Topic
Use a segue like, “You’re making me think about something else. Do you mind if we change the topic?” - Make an Excuse to Leave
If all else fails, politely excuse yourself by saying, “I need to go talk to [Name]” or “I need to check on something.”
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Happy Networking!